when the other isn interested
That falls somewhere within the line of cognitive dissonance, right? People who were raised where red meat was a large part of their culture can't bring themselves to believe that it's a bad thing and still function properly. You've always got to pick one or the other in these situations, and it's easiest when you don't want to change to either deny the other viewpoint or rationalize that it's good for other reasons. For instance, I'm constantly hearing my concerns diminished because X that I'm questioning "creates jobs for Americans" so it inherently can't be a bad thing to many people.. vibrators I am currently on Nuvaring and we use condoms most of the time so I am not worried about pregnancy (and if it were the case, abortion is not an option). We are not entirely stressed about this at all because we both really want to wait, as Christians, but we definitly slip up once in a while. Sometimes we feel so good, sometimes we feel a littl